Question 1

Screening Protocol

Accepted Answer

For my safety, screening is non-negotiable. Materials may be sent via email, or text upon request.
Please choose ONE of the following methods:A clear selfie with a government-issued ID (full name, DOB, and headshot must be visible, other information can be deleted) + LinkedIn, online presence (academic journal, article, etc.), or other forms of work verification.A clear selfie with your active business card + a link to your active LinkedIn, company profile, or academically affiliated online presence.
Three references from established, personal companions seen in the last 12 months, sent as links to active ads or websites, as well as the name + email/phone number you used to contact them. Companions must be of similar a professional level w/ social proof (websites, a curated brand, active social media, formal in communication, clear policies, etc.)Ads from MP, STG, LC, or other similar sites, are not considered. References from PD / P411 are not accepted.

Question 2

Fees, Deposits, & Payment Procedures

Accepted Answer

For incallThe incall fee, which is the total cost of the room that I'll book for us, serves as your deposit. Rooms may vary from $150 - 250+, depending on what you choose. Confirmation of reservation provided always :)All room details are worked out with you before collecting any fee, it's a completely collaborative process! This is separate to your in-date donation.
For outcall:The deposit is 20% of the total cost of our date. Because you are already hosting in a room, this will apply directly towards your date.Please see 'Room Accomodations' for more information about the types of hotels I accept.For all travel (incall or outcall): The deposit is the total cost of all travel accommodation, separate to in-date donation. Estimates & reservation confirmations provided! Learn more at 'Rates.'How I receive deposit or incall fees: Venmo: Available for only deposits less than 500 USD. Learn how to load cash onto a Venmo card for extra discretion here.
YouPay: I have premade options for 2 hour dates, or use the "YouPay Me Now" feature. Throne: Please purchase the equivalent cash-donation amount under 'Date Night Dinner!', or I can make you a personalized listing. Additionally, we can discuss purchasing the equivalent amount in gifts.Valid gift card: Please confirm directly with me before purchasing. Generally, I accept cards from Visa, Amazon, Uber, or Expedia. E-gift cards (like Giftly or Amazon) are highly preferred, but I also accept photos of physical gift cards if arranged.BTC: I accept instant transfers of BTC. I recommend Proton wallet as an untraceable middle-man.Zashi/Zodl: I accept Zcash/ZEC. 0% real world information to set up an account, 100% digital privacy. Hosted in Switzerland.501(c)3 Donation: A portion of your deposit may be covered by donating the equivalent of 100 USD to an eligible non-profit. Examples of organizations include: BAWS, Urban Justice Project, New Moon Network, The Cupcake Girls, or the Red Umbrella Fund. Any remaining balance should be covered via another method. How I receive remaining balance: Cash (USD): Given to me discreetly, or placed on the dresser/visible surface, at the beginning of our appointment in an envelope, card, or book.

Question 3

Room Requirements

Accepted Answer

I'll feel my best spending time with you in a private room at a 4 star+ hotel. See plenty of examples below. If you'd like a recommendation, please just let me know!Learn more about my hotel incall process in the 'FAQs' section. --------Want to see me earlier than the usual hotel check-in time? Don't plan to stay overnight? Consider browsing DayUse!  Note: If straying from this list, please look up hotels separately to make sure they're 4-star+ rated. I don't use in-site rating/review systems, thank you!---------Need examples? Let me do the work for you...*Often available on DayUseSan Francisco: Hilton-Financial District (FiDi)*, The Jay (FiDi), Hotel Zetta (SoMa)*, Palace Hotel (SoMa), Intercontinental Mark Hopkins (Nob Hill), Fairmont SF (Nob Hill), The Ritz-Carlton (Nob Hill), Taj Campton Place (Union Sq.)*, Staypineapple (Union Sq.)*, Hotel Emblem (Union Sq.)*, Axiom Hotel (Union Sq.)*, Hotel Zeppelin (Union Sq.)*, The Westin St. Francis (Union Sq.), etc.East Bay:  The Graduate Hilton (Berkeley), Hotel Shattuck (Berkeley)*, The Double Tree - Berkeley Marina*, Berkeley City Club, Residence Inn (Berkeley), The Claremont (Berkeley), Kissel Uptown (Oakland), Oaktown Roost (Oakland), Lafayette Park (Lafayette), The Rose Hotel (Pleasanton)South Bay: The Row (San Jose), Hotel Valencia (San Jose), The Westin (San Jose), The Double Tree (San Jose)*, Hotel DeAnza (San Jose), Hayes Mansion (San Jose), Juniper Hotel (Cupertino), Hyatt Regency (Santa Clara)Near SFO: Grand Hyatt at SFO, The Westin SF Airport, SF Airport Marriot Waterfront, Hyatt Regency SF Airport, Hilton SF Airport Bayfront, Embassy Suites by Hilton WaterfrontPeninsula: Hotel Nia (Menlo Park)*, The Stanford Park (Menlo Park), The Clement (Palo Alto), The Westin (Palo Alto), el PRADO (Palo Alto), The Graduate (Palo Alto), Beach House Hotel (Half Moon Bay), Ritz-Carlton (Half Moon Bay), Seal Cove Inn (Moss Beach), Cypress Inn (Miramar Beach)

Question 4

Travel Outside of SF & Berkeley

Accepted Answer

I am typically traveling from the Berkeley area. In order for us to spend time together, long distance transport must be covered—I'm a college girl! I primarily travel via standard rideshare service. I'll always send an ETA + exact estimate beforehand.TRAVEL ESTIMATES (by Bay Area county)- Alameda County: Home base! Free travel- San Francisco: Home away from home! Free travel- Contra Costa County: + $50-100 travel fee- San Mateo, Marin, Santa Clara, Solano, or Napa County: + $100-200+ travel fee- Sacramento: 6+ hour dates only, full Amtrak ticket reimbursement

Question 5

Cancellation & Rescheduling

Accepted Answer

Things happen! All I ask is you communicate in a timely manner, even if the odds are 50/50. If you cancel in a timely manner & wish to reschedule our date, any prior deposit will be applied to that future meeting. Deposit is considered forfeited if not rescheduling.If a date has to be cancelled on my behalf (has yet to happen), I will provide a full refund of the deposit via agreed upon method, unless you wish to reschedule.I reserve the right to refuse service if my boundaries are continuously violated while actively on our date. For these instances, your donation is considered forfeited.

Question 6

Reviews & Online Discretion

Accepted Answer

I do not authorize, solicit, or claim ownership of profiles on review websites or discussion boards. Many of these platforms contain explicit content and can compromise the privacy and discretion that I value in both my personal & professional life.After our time together, please do not post reviews, identifying comments, or other information about me on these sites. As a low-volume provider, I prefer to avoid unnecessary attention and traffic.Thank you for respecting my privacy and keeping our time special together confidential, think of me as your little secret :)---In place, feel free to browse my recent SFW 'review' thread on Blue Sky. These are real unprompted texts sent by suitors after their own first visit, though they are censored for anonymity. How do you know these reviews are real? Well, just like actual review sites, you just have faith! Also feel free to see: "Can I meet you beforehand to make sure you're real?" in FAQs

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