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Etiquette
Please review the following information before contacting me. Clarifying questions absolutely welcome, but complete lack of understanding will result in a non-response.



Policies
Frequently Asked Questions
For my safety, screening is non-negotiable and required prior to scheduling our first meeting. Materials may be sent via email, or text upon request.
Please choose ONE of the following methods:
• A clear selfie with a government-issued ID (full name, DOB, and headshot must be visible, other information can be deleted) + a link to your active social media profile, LinkedIn, or online presence (academic journal, article, etc).
• A clear selfie with your active business card + a link to your LinkedIn, company profile, or academically affiliated online presence.
• Two references from established personal companions seen in the last twelve months, sent as links to active ads or websites, as well as the name + email/phone number you used to contact them. Companions must respond before a booking will be accepted, so please plan accordingly! References from PD, Mega, STG, or other similar sites will not be accepted.
For outcall (includes social dates): The deposit is 20% of the total cost of our date. Because you are already hosting in a room, this will apply directly towards your date.
For incall: The deposit is the total cost of the room which I will book for our discretion. This is separate to your in-date donation. Estimate & confirmation of reservation provided always!
For travel (incall or outcall): The deposit is the total cost of all travel accommodation, separate to in-date donation. Estimates & reservation confirmations provided! Learn more at 'Rates.'
Acceptable forms of deposit:
• Venmo: Available for only deposits less than 500 USD. Learn how to load cash onto a Venmo card for extra discretion here.
(https://help.venmo.com/cs/articles/add-cash-in-stores-vhel337)
• YouPay:(https://youpay.me/datelozenge) I have premade options for 2 hour dates, or use the "YouPay Me Now" feature.
• Throne:(https://throne.com/datelozenge) Please purchase the equivalent cash-donation amount under 'Date night!', or I can make you a personalized listing. Additionally, we can discuss purchasing the equivalent amount in gifts.
• Valid gift card: Please confirm directly with me before purchasing. For incalls, I expect cards from Visa, Uber, or Hotels.com.(http://Hotels.com) (Hotels.com.)For outcalls, I'm also open to Amazon or several of the brands listed under my 'Gifts' tab. E-gift cards are highly preferred, but I also accept photos of physical gift cards if arranged.
• BTC: I accept instant transfers of BTC. I recommend Proton wallet (https://proton.me/wallet)as an untraceable middle-man.
• Zashi/Zodl:(https://zodl.com/) I accept Zcash. 0% real world information to set up an account, 100% digital privacy. Hosted in Switzerland.
• 501(c)3 Donation: A portion of your deposit may be covered by donating the equivalent of 100 USD to an eligible non-profit. Examples of organizations include: BAWS,(https://bayareaworkerssupport.org/) Urban Justice Project,(https://swp.urbanjustice.org/) New Moon Network,(https://www.newmoonnetwork.org/) The Cupcake Girls,(https://www.thecupcakegirls.org/) or the Red Umbrella Fund.(https://www.redumbrellafund.org/) Any remaining balance should be covered via another method.
• Cash-only special*: If you absolutely require a cash deposit for discretion purposes, please contact me directly via email.
*This accommodation is not available to travel-suitors, unless you are able to meet me locally for a social date, prior to our full date.
I'll feel my best spending time with you in a private room that is rated at least 3.9 stars. See plenty of examples below. If you'd like a recommendation, please just let me know!
Learn more about my incall process in the 'FAQs' section.
Want to see me earlier than the usual hotel check-in time? Don't plan to stay overnight? Consider browsing DayUse!(dayuse.com) Note: Please look up the hotel seperately to make sure it's 3.9+ stars, as they have their own in-site rating system that I don't use.
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Need examples? Let me do the work for you...
*Often available on DayUse
San Francisco: Hilton-Financial District (FiDi)*, The Jay (FiDi), Hotel Zetta (SoMa)*, Palace Hotel (SoMa), Intercontinental Mark Hopkins (Nob Hill), Fairmont SF (Nob Hill), The Ritz-Carlton (Nob Hill), Taj Campton Place (Union Sq.)*, Staypineapple (Union Sq.)*, Hotel Emblem (Union Sq.)*, Axiom Hotel (Union Sq.)*, Hotel Zeppelin (Union Sq.)*, The Westin St. Francis (Union Sq.), etc.
East Bay: The Graduate Hilton (Berkeley), Hotel Shattuck (Berkeley)*, The Double Tree - Berkeley Marina*, Berkeley City Club, Residence Inn (Berkeley), The Claremont (Berkeley), Kissel Uptown (Oakland), Oaktown Roost (Oakland), Lafayette Park (Lafayette), The Rose Hotel (Pleasanton)
South Bay: The Row (San Jose), Hotel Valencia (San Jose), The Westin (San Jose), The Double Tree (San Jose)*, Hotel DeAnza (San Jose), Hayes Mansion (San Jose), Juniper Hotel (Cupertino), Hyatt Regency (Santa Clara)
Near SFO: Grand Hyatt at SFO, The Westin SF Airport, SF Airport Marriot Waterfront, Hyatt Regency SF Airport, Hilton SF Airport Bayfront, Embassy Suites by Hilton Waterfront
Peninsula: Hotel Nia (Menlo Park)*, The Stanford Park (Menlo Park), The Clement (Palo Alto), The Westin (Palo Alto), el PRADO (Palo Alto), The Graduate (Palo Alto), Beach House Hotel (Half Moon Bay), Ritz-Carlton (Half Moon Bay), Seal Cove Inn (Moss Beach), Cypress Inn (Miramar Beach)
In order for us to spend time together, transport must be covered—I'm a college girl! I primarily travel via standard rideshare service. Estimates will be provided before-hand + booking confirmation + receipt afterwards.
Things happen! All I ask is you communicate in a timely manner, even if the odds are 50/50.
If you cancel in a timely manner & wish to reschedule our date, any prior deposit will be applied to that future meeting. Deposit is considered forfeited if not rescheduling.
If a date has to be cancelled on my behalf (has yet to happen), I will provide a full refund of the deposit via agreed upon method, unless you wish to reschedule.
I reserve the right to refuse service if my boundaries are continuously violated while actively on our date. For these instances, your donation is considered forfeited.
I currently do not allow reviews or claim ownership of any review site profiles. These sites are explicit in nature and not advisable for companions like me, who truly desire discreet and private romantic lives.
In place, feel free to browse my recent SFW 'review' thread on Blue Sky. T(https://bsky.app/profile/datelozenge.com/post/3md7nb74tvk2w)hese are real unprompted texts sent by suitors after their own First Meet experience, though they are censored for anonymity.
How do you know these reviews are real? Well, just like actual review sites, you just have faith!
Also feel free to see: "Can I meet you beforehand to make sure you're real?" in FAQs
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